Baby’s name?

We are confused (and a bit panic) :D. We don’t have any name for the coming baby yet. The baby will take two names i.e. chinese and non-chinese. Both names will be of official names. And, we need your help to give us some suggestions about the name.

picture taken from the dailymail.

The chinese ‘version’ of the name will be of our parents’ (and grandparents’) responsibility :D. Let them discuss among them and find a suitable name for the baby. One of the reasons is because Yuan and me are not well-versed in chinese naming strategy. I mean finding a name is not only about mixing different words that sound nice and have a good meaning. More than that, it’s about to understand the deeper meaning of each words and how they interact and the character or the words. To my mind, chinese name is a complex process.

However, the non-chinese one is our responsibility. And even this simple ‘requirement’ makes us panic nowadays hahaha. We had thought about it from months ago, yet to no avail. And now, as the due date is approaching (very fast *omg*), we become panic :(.

In Indonesia (and perhaps china too), baby name can sometime be given several weeks/days after the birth. In Uk as well. However, Yuan’s colleague told us that the administrative process to issue birth certificate is so time-consuming in UK. It takes months to complete. And this is the problem.

We don’t know how long will we stay in UK after my graduation (supposedly) in between August-November 2012. We need the birth certificate to apply for a passport for the baby. And again, this takes time.

Apart from all the administrative complication :D, we want to think carefully about the baby’s name. Well, since this is the first baby, we naturally want the best things for her including a name.

We thought this was an easy task. But we were so wrong :D. We have listed several conditions for the name in order to help us finding a suitable name. The list *please bear with me* is as follow:

Generic Conditions:

  • A name associated for girl or unisex. The baby is supposed to be a girl. But who knows anyway.
  • The name preferably doesn’t sound like a ‘western’ or ‘middle-eastern’ name *no offence*. However, latin name will be considered :D. We prefer names from Sanskrit or Indonesian. By western, we mean english, french, american, italian, spanish, etc. For example, we don’t fancy “jane” nor “jeanne” nor “jeannete”. I will write another post about this particular condition in the future.
  • It should be pronounce-friendly for our friends and families in China :D. In another word, we try to avoid using too many “R” in the name hahahaha.

Specific Conditions:

  • Preferably, it is associated with “light” or “to enlighten”. It can be of direct association or indirect one as well.
  • We also entertain names associated with “grace” e.g. a grace or to be a grace for others.

Basically, we wish that the baby would bring goodness/enlightenment/inspirations to her surroundings.

So, please feel free to suggest any name :). You can give your suggestion through email, text, or the comment box below. Any suggestion is warmly welcomed :).

The foetus’ sex 宝宝性别大公布

So we had our 2nd USG scan on 23rd December at St Mary Hospital. It was a thorough scan. The scan indicated that the foetus is all well. As a bonus, the scan also gave the first information about the foetus sex.

我们在12月23日做了第二次全面的B超检查,检查结果宝宝发育一切正常,而且我们还知道了宝宝的性别。

Therefore, without further a due, it’s (likely to be) a GIRL 😀 *hooray*.

是女孩,女孩,女孩耶!!!

This is really the best Christmas present for us and our whole family. Merry Christmas, families and friends.

这对我们全家来说是最好的圣诞礼物。在这里,祝我们所有的家人和朋友圣诞快乐。

 

Poll: Boy or Girl? / 男孩还是女孩?/ Cowok atau Cewek?

Time has come. On 23rd December 2011, we are going to have another USG scan. And we would be able to see the foetus’ sex. So, in order to add more fun :), we invite you to guess the sex of the foetus.

2011年12月23日,我们将进行第二次B超检查,最令人兴奋的是我们可以知道宝宝的性别了。所以我们现在邀请和我们有同样期待心情的你们一起来猜一猜宝宝的性别。

We will let you know the answer on Christmas Eve UK time (so, on Christmas day in China & Indonesia). Happy guessing everyone.

我们将在英国时间圣诞节前夜公布正确答案(中国和印尼应该是在圣诞节那天)。欢迎大家都来猜一猜阿。

Boy or Girl? / (男孩还是女孩呢?) / Cowok atau Cewek?

  • Girl / 女孩 / Cewek (71%, 10 Votes)
  • Boy / 男孩 / Cowok (29%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 14

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Hello all

We had our first USG scan on 4th November 2011. The scan is needed for two purposes i.e. to date the foetus and to assess the Down’s syndrome/唐氏综合症.

The Nuchal translucency (NT) scan’s result shows a good sign that is the foetus is in the low-risk category for the Down’s syndrome. It was measured at 1.7mm. According to the sonographer, this is of the low risk category. However, Yuan also took the blood test to further confirm this result. *poor her, so many blood test*.

If we don’t receive any news in 5 days after the blood test, then it will be a good news. *the doctors will only contact us immediately whenever something urgent/bad happened*

Ok, that’s the news for today. Now, the foetus wants to say a bit :D.

Hello. I am coming in another 6 months and few weeks :). Please be nice to me:

The baby, 3months oldMy clearer first photo:

The baby, 3 months oldPlease say hi to him/her :). *yeah, we don’t know its gender yet*

The RADIATION madness :D

You may have known that some foods and alcoholic beverages are harmful for the foetus. You may have been told that tiredness and stressful environment would affect the foetus badly. You also may have understood that pollutions are bad for the foetus. These are of general knowledge among expecting parents.

But, do you know your television at home may be harmful for the foetus? Or that the printer in your office is so evil to the foetus? or that computer screen, hairdryer, etc you-name-it are conspiring against your precious foetus? No, don’t start to laugh. I’m (trying to be) very serious with this 😀 *grin*.

Most likely, your answer will be a firm “No”. …… Unless you are from China :).

And that’s the main point of this entry. A lot of chinese are so obsessed with protecting their foetus. Apparently, chinese have identified the new evil in the TV, printer, and so-on :D. (Aha, a new business idea: to provide living quarters in caves for pregnant mothers in china *hahahaha*). So, they think that those gadgets (TV, etc) emit a dangerous level of radiation. And that’s why, pregnant mothers should protect their womb with ….. a special piece of cloth. It is believed that the cloth blocks any radiation.

We did test the cloth. We used the cloth to cover a mobile phone, and yeah, the phone didn’t get any signal.

We talked about this radiation madness. We conclude that since most chinese can only have one child, then they showered the child with the love too many. If before, they “spoil” the child with abundance food (cloth, toy, etc); now, they also spoil the foetus :). From this point of view, it’s actually quite the same with the chinese-indonesian tradition about specific herbal-food for pregnant mothers.